Can I vent for a second? So my 2 year old is non verbal, and has shown many red flags for autism. He took the M-chat and scored a 9 which puts him in the category "high risk" for autism. My nephew is very autistic (he's 5) silent genius type it is crazy!! I know it's hard on my sister though, and my husband sees that too. My husband tends to make things about himself, and make situations harder than they need to be. Lately he's been working on getting an investor for our company all the while the entire sales team quit making the work place extremely stressful, so since my husband has been dealing with that solo I thought it would be better to withhold information about our son having to get screened (believe me it was in his best interest)Well yesterday he checked the mail and saw the welcome packet to the clinic, and absolutely flipped out. Calling me a liar, telling me he's getting a vasectomy this week (this is a big back and forth battle for us), calling me awful names in front of our children, threatening to harm himself, and blaming everyone especially our kids for "ruining his life and happiness." I'm so hurt today. I hate him. He has said and done more aggressive selfish things in the past, but the fact that I can't trust my husband with my feelings, or with our kids security and confidence kills me inside. Where's my rock? Why is he the reason I'm stressed out? Why do I feel the need to hide things from him to protect him, and myself from his reaction? Why can't he make his family's feelings a priority? 😞