Really feeling like crap, just seen my bfs phone && that he's been searching females...like why are…

have you talked to him ? if it were me that phone would've been broken but that's me and his face too..

I went thru that before finally i got tired and started packing my shit i was bout to be out he changed his tune real quick i done told mine you aint the only one out there shape up or ship out

@chibiytino I've broken phones, I've been arrested for physically expressing myself on his face..I'm trying to change my approach bc my kids sense it and have seen us at the worst times. He always has an excuse as to how photos get liked or, how a message appears, he blames his phone bc it's been spazzing out but a phone doesn't just randomly or coincidently like certain females. @caidynsmommy22 I have left multiple times the only ones it badly effected was my girls...he supposedly was heartbroken says his family but I want him to show me that side. When I'm here I just feel like a roommate and a single mother. Porn shouldn't be an issue but it is for me especially when our sex life ain't popping and he knows I hate porn.

I know how you feel my ole man watchs porn to girl we been together 8 years married for 5 but he has always watched porn since before we got together its normal i think for men i hate it to but id rather he watch porn than b getting it in else where plus he only does it in early morning when i aint trying to wake up try n set boundries with him like he can only watch it if your asleep or something its mostly cause they want a quick release without having to go thru the motions

yea. you're right but I'm so not cool with it...makes me feel unsure of myself especially when the ENTIRE browser history was porn @caidynsmommy22

Girl i feel you trust me i have the same issues i know how you feel but they gone do what they gone do and its better him do it to himself then some other chick thats what i keep saying to myself cause trust i hate it to

@geekymomma13, same here. Never made love. I'm still trying to get him more into how I like it and he still fails but all this porn you'd think he's a pro by now..NOT! 8 years in soon to be 9...we barely have sex especially when I'm pregnant, we only have sex like 10x outta the 9 months. I should be happy he's watching porn and not doing something else but it feels like cheating too..you're watching another female being fxcked and that makes ya dxck hard. I'm just not cool with it.

oh, mine expect to fuck every day and oral, seriously. a few times I told him hey that hurt, he's always like why didn't you say. I always reply with, what you going to stop before you get your dick off, didn't think so. I went to the laundromat and he had his kid here. I came back and his daughter is just watching TV. he was in the bathroom showering with the door locked, he don't ever lock that door, ever. I am sure he was jacking off and had the shower running while doing so. his phone wasn't anywhere in sight. so why else is the door locked and phone in there with him, smh. I wouldn't mind the porn so much if he would actually show me affection and make love.

Oh wow...yea exactly my point too @geekymomma13

yep, seriously idk how long I am will to deal.

you gotta just weigh the pros and cons, decide if it's something you can tolerate @geekymomma13

oh I am. I am figuring if something doesn't change I'll have to make a change. I'm not afraid to but I'd like my child to have a chance of knowing her dad

true @geekymomma13