Question ladies if I go into labor on my own and I dilate like into active labor on my own should my…

Why is your doc against vbac?

Also, regardless of the risks it is your right to birth as you please. Even in an emergency they cannot cut you if you refuse. Just as some people say do not resuscitate if they are not breathing etc.

If your risks do not outweigh the benefits, i suggest seeing a doctor who will give you a trial of labor

@arivera64, @cubanese he's forcing me to c section

I've told him I didn't want a c section and he told me its medically necessary so that I don't have a uterine rupture but I want a trial of labor

@cubanese,

You can switch doctors and have a second opinion @studio.ghibli.mom23 that is your right also!

But that's the thing I don't wanna switch Drs I love my dr very much but I don't want another c section @expectingz

The chance of uterine rupture is like less than 5%. Of course this depends on how long ago you had your first child, the reason for your cs, and the nature of your incision. If he can't give you specific details then you need a new doctor. Sounds to me like he just wants money. Like i said though, he cannot force you into anything. You pay the bill, you call the shots. Thats like paying to get your nails done and the nail tech says you have to do the nails how they want.

Well you have some decisions to make then, I think he's pulling your leg, but you don't know unless you have another med professional assess the situation. He could be saying anything to get the extra money it brings in for c-section.

How many c-sections have u had? He can't force you to have one. If you tell him you want to push ur baby out he have no choice but to comply. I understand u love ur Doctor but if he's not following ur wishes it's best to switch. But if u only had on c-section u can have a VBAC with no problem women do it everyday

I have tried to see someone else @expectingz and because I'm so far along everyone's panels for vbac is full I just wanna go through the contractions I wanna feel the sensations of giving birth it got robbed from me...my first c section is cause they gave me my epi to early and labor stopped progressing and that was 4 years ago and my last child was at the time this baby is born almost 3 years ago @cubanese

@arivera64,

So then just go for it

I can't afford a midwife I already tried I'm just gonna goto my dr and tell him this if I go into labor on my own before the date you wanna section me let me trial labor if not we'll do the c section @cubanese @arivera64

No....tell him you are going to go until your due date and then if you haven't gone into labor by then, you will consider discussing cesarean. Put your foot down mama

I will but what if he kicks me and I can't find another de

Dr @arivera64 @cubanese

Then wait until labor starts and go to the er. Somebody has to deliver you. They cannot turn you away. And don't tell your doctor about your plans until the date of your cesarean and don't go. Call in the morning and say you changed your mind.

I'm not gonna do a natural I just had a friend do me some tarot card reading and yeh no according to those cards it's not a good idea along with that and my praying I feel he's know it's not a good idea so I'll avoid it