Ok first time expecting mommies is it just me or do you guys sometimes get overwhelmed with all of the "new" mommy advice that everyone gives!?? I understand that they are just trying to be helpful but the closer I'm getting to delivery and never experiencing this before I feel like everyone telling me what I need to do and shouldn't do and watch out for is just getting way to overwhelming!! And I feel like its making me a lot more nervous then I should be to have my baby... 😒
If hear one more grandparent say "this isn't what we did when you were a baby". I am going to scream. No one is putting things in the crib, no one is giving their child cereal at 2 weeks to make them sleep, no one giving water instead of formula in between feedings and no one is sleeping on their belly. Thanks but no thanks for the advice!!
I know right! I kind of just want to crawl in a hole and never have her lol I wish some moms would take into consideration that every woman is different and just because it worked good for them dosent mean that they need to keep after me to do the same... And I think our instincts will kick in and we will know how to take care of our babies! And if we don't then that's when we can come and ASK for advice ourselves!!
I have asked to stop with advice unless I reach out for it. I've rather enjoyed the learning on my own as I go thing. It's worked out really well for me.
Just wait until the baby is here. 😑 I feel like I'm constantly being told what I should or shouldn't do. It makes me want to stay home away from everyone.
I stop listening to people of they try giving me any kind or form of "advice". Like literally ignore them. They say what they say and my response is to finish what I was saying (cause I'm usually interrupted) and I just pretend they didn't say anything 😂 worked like a charm so far!!