okay. so me and my bf of 4 years broke up(well been broken up for months now), I'm currently 37…

didn't work for me bc he was a cheater and liked to sleep around so I went back with my mom

Same here. he cheated multiple times and I found out all at once cus I went on a bitch hunt and they told me. he wants to make it work and I'm definitely not giving him the time of day but I have no where to go. I'll be moving into our second bedroom as soon as school starts back up for his son. I wish I can stay at my moms but he would surely follow. I don't want to keep the baby away from him but I can't stand the sight of him and his petty determination to make this over killed of a relationship work. @michelle2220

They aren't together so it wouldn't be cheating. I'm currently doing this as I am a stay at home mom and don't have the financial means to leave. We co parent but have our own private lifes as well

the thing is it won't work. the baby will feel the stress and tension and it's better to coparent apart then together honestly

Yeah, a part of me put that into play in my mind too. I don't want to raise a baby in a broken unhappy home. I know it's up to me and only me but it's overwhelming to think about it. this is just all new to me.

how long have you been co parenting this way? @ladyameliasmama

I wouldn't recommend doing it for years but until you can get situated on your own. For 10 months now. Almost a year

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