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Am i the only one that kind of feels like i don't want my husband's family involved with our son? like i get irritated,…

Am i the only one that kind of feels like i don't want my husband's family involved with our son? like i get irritated, almost resentful in a way. They all say he look's like his dad. Never gives me credit for being a mom or for my son looking like me. It's all about daddy. When i take him over they take him from me and basically ignore me. I have told my husband how i feel about it, but it kind of starts a fight. He kind of feels like i don't want his family involved and the sad thing is, is i kind of feel that way. Lately Atlas only wants me at night. It was hard at first but i started to enjoy putting him to bed every night, it's our special time together even though i see him all day. My husband gets upset because Atlas doesn't want him at all, he will scream and cry hysterically until i take him. I feel so bad for husband because he wants to spend time with him and he doesn't really see him a lot due to work, not to mention i get so tired I'd love a break once in a while. But he won't take to him at night and my husband told me that he is jealous. It kind of makes me feel like i don't want to share my son with him in a way. The other day we we're fighting and he told me he should rip up the marriage license because i changed. I got upset that he said that so i threatened him with child support. Even though i told him I'd never do what his ex did to him. He got really upset and assumed i had been planning child support for a while, which i had thought about what if i had to but never planned if. We worked everything out that night. I know i love my husband and i want him here and to spend time with Atlas but I'm just feeling clingy to my baby.

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