When you tell your boyfriend you only want him there for the labor and delivery and he looks at you…
When you tell your boyfriend you only want him there for the labor and delivery and he looks at you weird and says "Why?" Like good for your sister for letting the whole family be there for everything but that's not what I want. I've always been a loner, I like going to my appointments alone. When I was in the hospital with my miscarriage I was alone. But it's all by choice. If there's a baby getting pulled out of my vagina, I don't want an audience. I don't want an audience for hours of contractions and pain either. I think it's great that some people like to have a full room but that's not how I am and his mom is gonna be mad and try to talk me into it.
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
Just say you are doing a style of birthing that requires a high level of concentration and you'd also like to keep this moment special for just your boyfriend and yourself. You want all of both of your energy going into bringing the baby into the world. Of course you're excited for them to meet the baby but when you both have had a moment to bond with baby
Emily·
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@showersoverflowers, I'm gonna come up with something like that! She's also social media and camera obsessed and I don't want someone else sharing my baby before I do. Again she's SO nice, I don't want to talk shit or anything. I don't even want my own mom there, it's not a personal thing.
C.·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
Just put up signs saying snap but don't post! I feel like that's just a matter of respect. my in laws do not have normal ideas of boundaries so I have to do the same thing..However it's 100% the truth. I do hypnobirthing and I do believe in limited exposure to new people after baby's birth. that time really should be spent developing a bond with parents and siblings.