As much as I hated the healing process after birth. And how overwhelming it is with a baby that is…
As much as I hated the healing process after birth. And how overwhelming it is with a baby that is colic and will not sleep alone or doesn't want to be put down...I really want to be able to have another baby. My BF only wants one. And is set on it. But how can you tell a 20 year old girl she can't have anymore kids? And then not understand why I get upset about it. I've always wanted 2 kids. Has anyone else gone through that and your man has changed their mind and is happy with 2 kids ...
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
I would give him some time to get used to his first baby. guys... especially in their younger 20s are still trying to mature. he might just be freaking out a little being a new dad. I'd just give him some time. he will come around and warm up to it. I can almost guarantee it! just ignore him when he says it lol
Samantha·
Мама сына-младенца
@mdomke22, yea I guess. He says it's cause he's selfish and wants to be able to spoil himself and our son. And with another child he won't be able to do that. But I want my son to have alittle brother or sister!(girl preffered😏) we talked about it. And I said we would wait 4-5 years. That way we have time to save money and move. He said he does change his mind he'd want to have another kid when we move out of state
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (16 нед.)
I wanted to wait til my first was 3 or 4....I think it would've been a lot less stressful. but yea apparently mine couldn't wait lol. at least he sounds like a good daddy :) spoil that lil one to death! 😍😍
Deleted·
On Easter, someone asked him if he wanted any kids and he straight up said NO. And then a month later I found out I was pregnant. A few days ago I was at the doctor and a woman had 6 sons all under the age of 7, and I told him there's no way, I'm one and done. And his response was "well... Maybe just one more 😉" so trust me, they will change their mind or at least be happy with whatever happens!