I wish my parents and I went so close and I wish this wasn't their first grand baby bc idk how to…
I wish my parents and I went so close and I wish this wasn't their first grand baby bc idk how to tell them I'm not moving to pa with them that I am going to stay in oh with my boyfriend for right now. I tried and my mom freaks out and my dad gets upset. any advice.
tamesha·
I told my mom I'm moving out soon to an apartment with my boyfriend she gets mad like huh -_- I'm going to be like 3 hours away not that far
tamesha·
but tell her the truth instead of beating around the bush I know it's hard girl
tamesha·
she can't get mad because your BD lives there you wouldn't want to take your child away from him Lol make up something
cassandra·
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@itsaboy114, I've tried like I understand my dad getting upset bc we've been closer than dirt my whole life were best friends but my mom is overbearing that my boyfriend has been shutting me out lately bc he can't stand it. were going to live with his parents for a while until we save up money for an apt bc his truck just broke so he has to buy a new vehicle ... its like 4 hours away and they act like I'm never going to see them and that they won't ever see their grand kid and that my boyfriends parents will see him or her all the time ... I don't want to lose them or hurt them and my mom already threatened me with divorcing my dad if I stay but I don't want to lose my boyfriend either
cassandra·
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@itsaboy114, I've tried everything I can think of , only thing I can think of it to some how get $40 so I can travel back to pa and talk to my dad alone and then maybe we can talk to my mom or he can.
tamesha·
dang smh I don't agree on that smh that's kind of wrong .I feel for you girl smh sometimes you got to make the right decisions for you and your baby go with what ever your heart says . I'm here if you need somebody to talk to .@cassieleighx33,
cassandra·
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@itsaboy114, NY heart is in the middle girl bc of how close I am with my parents mostly my dad but life doesn't always go as planned and I need to do what I have to for my baby.
tamesha·
you right that's my situation too .I feel you girl .because that's how I am with my mom so close with her but sometimes you have to be free and accomplish your goals I promise if you have your goals already ready to peruse and ready to start life you will be fine and they will be happy in the long run also .
tamesha·
@cassieleighx33,
cassandra·
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girlll, I just don't know and I hate how my mom threatened me with divorcing my dad and she says she won't leave Ohio like wtf you've been with my dad 26 years today!
cassandra·
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@itsaboy114, and it bothers me that my bf and I barely talk we used to talk all day everyday and now its one word texts from him and hour later reolys and sometimes when I tell him I love him he ignores it til I say something about it.
tamesha·
smh dang man all you can do is pray every night and pray that God changed her mindset on this situation and I promise it will be fine .your in the early stages you don't need to be stressing because that stress your baby out .just take a deep breath and be very honest with her.you have to be adult about it and let her know straight up you want to start life so your baby will be settled by the time he/she comes feel me
tamesha·
@cassieleighx33,
tamesha·
Wait so do you think yall are ready to live together? .I think if that's happening go with your mom because until it's time because you don't want to make the wrong choice and he starts acting different feel me .
cassandra·
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yeah we are he's just shutting me out bc of the situation and he thinks I'm going to go with them.