I'm honestly feeling so bummed. Since I've had my baby (3 mos ago) my friends have seemed to not…
I'm honestly feeling so bummed. Since I've had my baby (3 mos ago) my friends have seemed to not care as much. I'm a bridesmaid in one of my friends wedding, and they didn't tell me or invite me to get her wedding dress. I asked my other friend when we were all gonna go to get it picked out and she was like "she already got it a while ago its perfect." I asked why they didn't ask me to go and she said "well we figured you wouldn't have time." Like wtf? I need some time to myself here and there too you can't just assume. And apparently they're all going to Cedar Point together tomorrow. Idk I'm just feeling a little sad I guess. At least my baby gives me the best heartwarming smiles and he loves when he's around me.
Sonya·
I understand where you're coming from. You should definitely voice how you feel! Don't be upset sometimes people aren't ready to grow with you. 💜
emily·
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That's really crappy of them honestly. I would feel the exact same way for sure. Have you spoken to them about how they're making you feel?
Rachel·
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@sonya15, yeah they definitely need some time to grow! I love them dearly but I'm still hurt. @emkasting I spoke to my one friend about it and she goes "yeah I could see how that would upset you." but she's always been that way, never one to really be good at comforting it's just who she is and I still love them but it was really crappy. I know it wasn't their intentions to hurt me but I mean still, just because I'm a new mom doesn't mean that I can't be fun too.
emily·
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I understand that. I had this one good friend that just completely abandoned me after I got pregnant. Told me she was excited for my baby shower then bailed the day of. I don't know what it is about people that just run away when a friend has a baby. But it sure sucks. I'm so sorry they're being that way to you. Being a new mom now is honestly when I could use friends the most!
Rachel·
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@emkasting, that's exactly how I feel, I could really use my friends right now. I'm sorry that you had to go through that as well :( it really sucks that people change like that. I don't adjust to it very well since her and I have been best friends since the 3rd grade