I think I need to figure out a hospital plan. Like where is my 4 year old gonna stay, who's gonna be…

I was thought about the same. I assumed my mom would be in the room with me again but she said she rather help by keeping my son entertained. I know I'm going to feel 1000 times better knowing he's with her than anyone else. We live 5min away from the hospital so they can visit at any time.

I assume our children can be with us during visiting hours all they want. so we can still see them.

@lucyyxoxo_, it's hard for us because we have all kinds to think of. I think my mom is gonna be with me well I'm in labor. The doctor said she can be in the delivery room. But I'm just unsure about everything. Lucky u that ur close to the hospital. I love about 20 minutes from mine.

yea of course your mom can be with you. but if you have no one to stay with your daughter just have her stay with your mom.. is your SO going to be in the room?

@lucyyxoxo_, the thing is my daughter is so picky on who she stays with or likes in general. So it makes it harder. Hes gonna be in there for sure. My doctor said they allow siblings to be in there as long as the mom is OK with it.

i never heard of that happening in a hospital. but if they allow it and you feel comfortable with her being in there then try it. at least your mom will be there in case it's too much for your daughter.

@lucyyxoxo_, my obgyn said it was fine. But at this point I'm just gonna take it day by day.