I worry about my fiance. he's not sleeping very well because he's terrified that he is gonna wake up and nessa wont. plus everyone keeps talking about how she is so much like me. he can't see any of the parts of him that she does have and it's killing him. I don't want him to end up with postpartum depression (yes guys can get it) and everyone is making it even harder on him. how do I keep them from being so rude about everything?
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@babes101116, @jaeparm right now we still live with them. I don't want to end up getting kicked out :'(
Stand up to them, or cut them off. Tell them you almost died and he's the only one supporting you and you don't need negativity in your life. End of sorry.
then stand up for your man and tell your family to back off
I just wish my family would stop acting like he's not doing anything right. he kept me calm on my deathbed. he's been taking care of her at night and going to work in the morning because I haven't been able to do much. he's trying so hard and nothing is enough for them. even the 11 yr old talks shit to him... @babes101116
That's definitely stressful, but you're both strong and you have to take it one day at a time
@babes101116, I think part of it is that I almost died in labor and he saw the whole thing. now he's so worried that he's gonna lose her.
If they kick you out they truly are terrible people.