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I have a 6 month old and always thought I wanted my babies close in age, until after it was a possibility. I just found out I'm 4 weeks pregnant and could not be more upset. I feel terrible. I cannot stop crying because my son and I have such a strong bond and he loves to cuddle. he'll be 14 months when the new baby arrives and I feel like I won't be able to do that anymore.. snuggle and hold as much as we do. is/has anyone ever gone thru this? I just want my one little boy for a little while longer :(
21.07.2016

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lovemyboys4
lovemyboys4
thank you so much for your comments.. it helps a lot! I'm basically dealing with this by myself since my fiance doesn't wanna talk about it. he's pretty disappointed too. and we can't tell anyone yet so it's tough by myself. so thank you for being positive! :)
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boymomx4
boymomx4
I didn't have any complications, he was born 4 weeks early but he was healthy needed no time in the nicu. No I really didn't miss out on anything it's just them and i during the day and then when daddy gets home they spend time with him. I didn't miss him Crawl, talk or walk
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lovemyboys4
lovemyboys4
also @kreese88 did you have any complications? I read that bc your body isn't completely healed there can be some complications
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lovemyboys4
lovemyboys4
didn't you miss out on a lot tho? I feel like at least the first 3 months will be just all about the new baby and won't have the time or energy to care for my first born. since my fiance doesn't get any time off work it's just me all day and all night with both and I feel like I will be just too tired to play and teach him things
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boymomx4
boymomx4
I have two boys that are a year apart I was upset to when I found out I I was pregnant again when my son was 5 months old, I felt like I was gonna miss out on everything he did, but honestly after while I got over it, if God blessed with another baby there was a reason. It took us over a year to conceive with Bentley and this time we weren't even trying it kind of just happened and I was on bc. Don't feel guilty they will grow up the best of friends!
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lovemyboys4
lovemyboys4
I know that.. I'm trying to think of all the positives but it's just so hard. he's such a mommas boy and I love it. we wanted to start trying again when he was about 1 year. it took us 2 years to get pregnant the first time. I didn't know it was going to take just 1 time the second time around. I literally cannot stop crying and trying to get every second I can with him bc I feel so guilty
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_mommyoftwo_
_mommyoftwo_
I found out i was expecting baby #2 about 20 days after my son turned 1.. I was a little sad that he wouldnt have much time by himself to be spoiled, but as i progressed in my pregnancy we got more and more excited!!! Im happy my boys will be close in age!!!! And with your son going to be about 14 months when new baby comes, he will be more independent walking around on his own, and may not want to cuddle much lol
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