A Poll Ladies... How many of you would be upset if your SO said that they didn't feel like doing something even if you felt it was important? My answer is No I wouldn't be... what's your answer?
Well... I mean it's your siblings not his, so I wouldn't be mad at him at all. Now, if he volunteers to help too and then backs out, I'd be mad, ya know?
I would still watch them. but no I wouldn't be mad at him.. that's his opinion, you can't force that on someone.. not y'all kids so he has all rights to reject it.
Okay let's say it's your siblings wedding anniversary and you volunteer to watch their kids and when you talk to your SO they say they don't feel like watching their kids