for the mom's on here who comment on other mom's posts about how we shouldn't bash our husbands behind their backs,…

@sparklymama I know but it's no talking to these ladies . If they don't know their self worth then oh well .

amen I try so hard to mind my business sometimes it just flies out lol @quansmommyy 😂😂😂😂😂

@sparklymama that's why it is best to mind your business if they want put up with that then let them . Ain't no way a man is going to disrespect me ain't enough love in the world .

Your husband may not but her husband does. and no we don't bicker. We sit down like grown adults and discuss issues. Specially with children in the house fighting and arguing is not a good environment for them

you said your husband has no filter when it comes to hurting your feelings @nessa_475 so he may not have name called you but you were hurt and to me that equates to an issue starting with disrespect

had a different point of view however we talk about it we do not argue or bicker @nessa_475

but that's the thing, I never stated being called any of those names. I'm jus saying in general y'all have never bickered or for got into an argument over something stupid?? @sparklymama @ladyameliasmama

@nessa_475,

correct I've never been name called and neither has he and we sit down and talk if we need to there is no yelling or arguing in my house ... mind you I've been in the latter with my ex name calling put downs yelling physical abuse cheating etc ... I decided to do better and did better period

My husband has never called me a ho, slut, bitch and the like. He has never degraded how I dress or accuse me of inappropriate behavior. I have treated him the same. Our marriage is based on respect. If I don't have anything nice to say I keep my mouth shut. Words are not something you can take back. Nor are actions.

so y'all can honestly sit there and tell me that you nor your husbands have never said anything stupid to one another?? @sparklymama @ladyameliasmama

and no I'm sorry being an "idiot" does not explain or justify their bad behavior that's you making an excuse in an attempt to feel better or downplay the situation ... however if you feel he's just being an idiot by all means continue to accept that reality we do get the outcome we set out for @nessa_475

You don't have to say they're abusive for them to be abusive. What owenjacesmommy posts is most definitely verbal abuse and I believe she once posted about him throwing things at her.... while she was pregnant. Abuse isn't only physical. We don't say these things to judge but because we care

well let's see if you've ever been yelled at or name called by him that's abuse... if you've ever been withheld affection or degraded that's abuse if you've ever felt belittled that's abuse @nessa_475

y'all jump to abuse. no one, not i or @owenjacesmama ever said our husbands are abusive. We jus state that, they say very stupid things bc they are idiots. @sparklymama @quansmommyy

I was in an abusive relation before my husband and I used to say that it's no fun walking on eggshells all the time. Once I got out and got with my husband I realized what I had been missing all along. Yes he can still have an attitude at times but his anger is never directed at me and he never calls me names or yells at me. He doesn't make me cry or make me feel insecure. That's no way to live.

@nessa_475 and @owenjacesmama just because a man is a good father and provider doesn't mean anything when they are constantly being disrespecting and talking to them like they are shit .

no it's not wal mart however the issues that get described by many are highly abusive, disrespectful, and all out dangerous situations... but by all means keep holding on keep justifying it is after all your reality you will live what you choose to accept in your world @nessa_475 @owenjacesmama

we have so much in common right there lol everyone's always saying "your dumb for staying with him" or "why dont you just leave ".... um bc its a marriage not just walmart ? you dont just give up and leave ?