When my SO 10 and 9 year old daughters come to stay with us he is so rude to me... I don't get it!!! I spent the night hiding in the bedroom with the baby... Just sucks... All I asked is the girls clean up after themselves... Didn't ask for them to do chores or help with Anything else... I'm handling it all and doing it all with a newborn that I'm breastfeeding ... Just asked they clean up after themselves... Am I so awful? I feel like an outcast when they are here... Makes me sad.