I'm trying so hard to not be a crazy nagging wife but it's so hard today. I feel so resentful toward…

I'm trying so hard to not be a crazy nagging wife but it's so hard today. I feel so resentful toward my husband today. He doesn't talk to me about anything just makes decisions. Like tonight he is hanging out with his friend after work and I hardly ever get to see him. Granted he hasn't seen this friend in years because he ha lived in other parts of the country but I hate being dictated to. And when he said he wasn't even sure if he could get off early to see the friend he doesn't update me and tell me that he got off and is with the friend! Is it too much to ask to be included in the decision making?