one thing I was raised on was to never judge others based on what something looked like.
for many years after I had my son I failed at that. when my son passed, yes I was extremely bitter with the world. but I promised him one thing. I will be the best damn person I can be. everyday I will try not to be bitter. everyday I will try to be nice. I will stand up for what I believe. and most of all, when I love, it will be unconditional. my son deserves to see his mom (from heaven) being a good person.