To my family we went to dinner I handed my father a pinto bean from my pocket and my husband gave my stepmom one at same time they said look it's a bean never ask what it was for or anything then my sis boy he's two said what is that why u give it to them I said bc it's the size of the baby growing n my belly. I had seen lady on Pinterest preg with her 3rd just went in kitchen gave her husband English pea and said were having a sweet pea that where I got idea.