I swear my child father is so damn selfish!! he lives in Wisconsin I told him we don't plan on going…
I swear my child father is so damn selfish!! he lives in Wisconsin I told him we don't plan on going there till 2018 when my daughter is 2. And that if he wants to see her he'll have to come here. I'm waiting that long because first off she is way to young to be traveling 2,000 miles away and it's just not ideal it'll be better and easier when she gets older and he goes " ok I'll figure it ok then ig" like really ?? Why does my daughter have to make the effort for YOU to see her? You are grown "man" get off your butt and make the effort! And if you're not willing too guess what then you just won't she her! Plan an freaking simple! So much for " I miss her" huh? 😂 smh. Making a baby travel because you're to damn selfish.
Jahnessa·
Мама дочки-младенца
You'd think because he "cares" about her so much that he would think about her and how she Would do instead of his damn self
Jes·
В ожидании первенца
2018??? He's supposed to come and see her for the next two years??? That kinda sounds selfish to me, to be honest. Just my opinion but you're not giving him much room to work with. Babies can travel without an issue. I have family that's taken their kids all over the world from a young age and were fine.
Jahnessa·
Мама дочки-младенца
Yes I am. My child is only 3 month and way to young to travel. My child shouldn't have to be the one to make an effort he should. But all he wants to worry about his HIMSELF, his drugs and alcohol. That is more than enough time if he really wants to see her to come see her. @jesjeslovesyou
missing31user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
is he paying child support at all?
Jahnessa·
Мама дочки-младенца
Nope. And hasn't done One thing for her since she's been born @crunchymomma
missing31user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
well from 2000 miles away that's not easy. I don't know the whole story obviously, and I wouldn't expect you to make the first move and travel that far for him to see his daughter. my advice though, would be put him on child support payments, and the money he gives you for child support, put some of it aside in a savings account then use the child support money to help pay for plane tickets for him to come visit your daughter. but if he's paying child support AND finding the money to come visit, that is not easy at all. I will say you shouldn't use all of the child support to fund him coming to visit, but you could use it to help him. but that's just my advice, that to me would seem like the easiest way for her and her dad to have a relationship.
octobermom14·
Мама сына-младенца
well how selfish is he...like so would say hes a coward for not stepping up in the plate.