I'm 23 weeks pregnant and due to uncontrollable circumstances, my fiance mother lives with us . They…
I'm 23 weeks pregnant and due to uncontrollable circumstances, my fiance mother lives with us . They both smoke cigarettes .. ever sense we found out I was pregnant at 6 weeks along my fiance has went outside to smoke cigarettes, but on the other hand his mother chooses not to. We have asked her millions of times to go outside to smoke which she does when she's sober but when she's drinking she don't care and A- either smokes In her room with the door shut & sometimes open & B- she comes to our side of the house a day smokes her cigarettes inside, because she's rude and obviously doesn't care i put all my son's things into scented garbage bags and tied them shut ! And before he gets here I'm gonna wash everything even his crib and changing table mattress. She says when he's here she'll stop smoking in the house for good but I don't believe her . She keeps saying he's gonna sleep with her in her room , but he's not and I don't have the heart to tell her that , is it bad I don't want him around her at all? And what can I do about the smoke in the house ? I don't want him to die of sids , but she's never going to change . Have any of you Mama's brought home a baby to a non smoke free house?
Maria·
Мама сына-младенца
- you should talk to your fiance about telling her to stop now specially since once the baby comes it might be a bit harder... and since your pregnant and your smelling the smoke too it's bad for you and baby as well...
Chelsea·
Мама дочки (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)
@marialovey7, that's the thing he tells her over and over again not to smoke in the house . but when she's drinking and drunk she fights back with him , shes so rude.. is not even funny. she don't care at all when she's drinking . and when she brings her friends over she tells them that they can smoke in the house as well , it's getting to the point where I do not want to bring him here at all
Leslie·
Yes, all three of my children came home to a non smoke free home. They're fine. It's not he best for them, but the chances of something really bad happening to them are slim. The three times I had my children I was always living with my mother lol, so her and her bf smoked, it wasn't my house so it's not like I could tell them what to do in their own house. Now I have my own place, and it will be smoke free.
Leslie·
If it's your house she needs to follow your rules, find some resources online about how bad it is for baby and show your husband so he will understand he needs to MAKE his mother stop or make her get out.
Maria·
Мама сына-младенца
- It's your house you make the rules not her !!! either tell her she needs to stop all together or to go outside ... or if it comes to the worst your gonna kick her out or send her to a hotel cause she can't be doing that around you and your baby soon.... I know some ppl is hard to stop smoking but she needs to think about her grandbaby... be like she won't get to see the baby if she don't reduce or stops
lorraine·
she need to follow ur rules. u need to tell her that shes affecting u now. ur hubby needs to put his foot down. enough already. she wanna smoke go outside or move out. or that she cant drink anymore. dont allow beer in da house. take her cigs away. buy a humidifier and no baby shouldnt be in her room.
Kimber miller·
В ожидании первенца
she needs to quit that now or throw her out. Family or not, she's putting your baby at risk. Just remember that