Ladies, my SO is leaving for Jamaica for 12 days and I'm 8 months pregnant. Is it wrong for me to be…

I'd throw a fit! 😡

@babyeaston191, I am sooooo freaking mad!! He's going on vacation while I'm here pregnant and this pregnancy has already been very difficult for me. I have no one here! All of my family and friends is 5 hours away😕. I'm feeling like if he's willing to leave at this point he's not the person I want to be with at all. That's the most selfish thing I can think of:/.

Is this a last minute trip? Why? With who?

@patti28, he said that it was planned before I got pregnant. He goes every year with his dad but all he does is party there.

Does he not care about any of that at all? If not, I'd tell him to keep his ass on vacation. That's BEYOND fucked up. I'm so sorry, love! Feel free to message me if you want.

I am harsh so don't listen to me but when he chooses to walk out that door he wouldn't be coming back after.

@babyeaston191, @patti28 that's literally exactly how I feel. How can someone be so selfish?? I'm 8 months pregnant and can hardly get up from the sofa without his help and he thinks it's cool to leave. I wish I could pack up and go to my moms house while he's gone but I don't get along with the people that live there. The last time I saw them we were all fighting and I'd hate to be in a tense environment. Ugh! I have no where to freaking go and feel so damn stuck. I hate that he's doing this. He's making it so hard for me to be with him.

if it is a annual thing i don't see the problem. i get it's late in pregnancy and stuff but sometimes men need to get away just like we do. use it as an excuse to take a vacation and he keeps baby later on.. idk i wouldn't be mad but thats just me.

@naomiedgd, yeah it wouldn't be an issue if I weren't completely alone with no friends or family, lol. No car either.

He can kiss my ass at this point. I keep hoping he'll change his mind but if he doesn't I'm gone. There's no way I'll be going on vacation and leaving my son for 2 weeks anyway.

I think it's better than if he had decided to go when the baby is fresh out of you lol If you want feel free to message me and i can try to keep you company that way.

I'd be pissed too! I'd mail him all his shit and see how much fun he have after that ✌

I'd be pissed

He should've cared enough to discuss ahead of time and reach an agreement. If he didn't do that and he goes anyways, tell him he can't come back and change the locks. If that's what you want of course. Don't change what you feel you deserve Bc bus stubbornness. Stand for for yourself. @me sjeslovesyou

oh hell no!!