So fucked off an upset OH's dad and step mom want to take my three year old to Skegness for the…
So fucked off an upset OH's dad and step mom want to take my three year old to Skegness for the weekend maybe a week on 13th of August I told my OH no because I'm not comfortable with him going away for a long period of time with out me or my OH plus they never listen to our rules just today they told him he could have something we told him he couldn't have n told him not to listen to us !
The thing is I'm due on 17th of sept and I suffer really bad with my anxiety and me not being with my child makes it worse . OH told them I wasn't comfortable and they did we understand that but he will be fine with us we will watch him carefully basically not taking no for an answer. OH says what am I supposed to say to that I told him to grow some balls me tell the there not taking him n he's saying but there his grandparents so I snapped and said well by sounds of it I'm not getting a say in the matter I'm sure some people forget I'm his mother and not them so do what u want . Now we're not speaking and I can't stop crying why can't they jus back off ? There so controlling !! X sorry for the rant x
Danielle·
@jamesnbump16, stick to your guns! If you don't feel comfortable don't let him go! I doubt I'd want mine too! If you agree to it your just gonna be moody, horrible and on the edge the whole time he's away!x
Rachel·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (31 нед.)
I'm sticking by it I jus hate that me n my oh r arguing about it because he's not man enough to say no to them they don't stick to anything we put in place like I've been working getting him off the one bottle he had of a night as a comfort he didn't have it for a week stayed overnight with them n he was given a bottle because it kept him quiet instead of dealing with his little tantrum they fill him with chocolate when we ask them not too as it gives him loose bowels they give him whatever he wants to keep him quiet and we r trying to teach him boundaries x
zara·
Why don't you speak to them and tell them no? They can't just do as they please with your child, put your foot down x