sitting here emotional crying because in 8months of pregnancy i just realized my husband has not…

man are so insensitive

omg yes they are but want us women to cater to them when they get home from work @chibiytino

@mamix3_, my husband is the same way. I'm only 10 weeks but his first baby. I told him I feel like I'm doing it alone he said it just doesn't seem real. He's not excited anymore, always angry, always griping. Well IT IS REAL!!! He seen the ultra sound, the positive pregnancy tests, my baby bloat... He's not once went out of his way for me (but he never has) and I don't necessarily need his help but it's nice from time to time. Men are very selfish. My husband is one of those men that does it IF it benefits him. I love him though.... 😏

yes! There's where I draw my line

yup same here he said when baby is born hell feel more excited says I complain too much like I've never been pregnant before jajajajaj like every belly is the same. my husband is the same if it right for him he don't care about it. I love my husband but it hurts because our first son he was back in his country this baby he has the opportunity to enjoy every moment and he hasn't but it's OK my daughter hears my voice on a regular and the many I love yous and I get my own cravings hell regret it when baby girl isn't the typical daddy's girl because he wanted to be an ass. @morganmommy79

@mamix3_, I think my husband will sorta come around when the baby is here because he'll finally have something to call his own. Because I guess me and my other 2 kids aren't enough?? Anyway... Idk how to change it other than do it all myself. I'm independent anyway. And it's not like there's a guy code to go by but it's so hard reading these other posts about how sweet their husbands are when mine just keeps to himself and picks at everything imaginable. :/

omg girl so does mine picks at what i wear if i say im in pain if i complain of a smell. he isn't sweet at all and i wish he were because honestly it's pushing me away @morganmommy79

@mamix3_, My hubby picks at things like the house not being spotless, the bills being paid not exactly on time, who touched his guitar? Who scratched his coffee press? He's the only one using them! He picks at my son over everything! Soon as we get home from school or work, did u clean ur room? Did u pay the bills? Did u do this or that?? While he does nothing. Its annoying. And he's always happier when my kids leave for their dads it seems. :/

@mamix3_, he does nothing.. He works but at home he plays his guitar, plays on his phone, watches tv and mows the grass. And he gets mad because things don't get done. I'm exhausted! Sometimes not feeling well. He don't care. He just gets mad and puts me down for it. It gets old!

yup mine too because my eldest isnt his child. and he has something to say all the time when he does nothing at all when hes around. and then with our son he complains because hes hyper but he forgets he was a bad ass kid and that was passed on. right now he got off work no call no nothing since 3 and i just so happen to go on whatsapp and facebook and hes been on and off since then. im pissed so i said nothing he has no keys so hell be sleeping in the hall tonight@morganmommy79

@mamix3_, your husband is off work and hasn't called u or at least told u where he is?? Nothing makes me more upset than that! My husband used to disappear when we were dating (living together) and he'd be gone for hours and ignore every text and call. He doesn't do that now because I told him next time to just stay gone. Ugh

yup he sure is girl. i just sent him a text told him whatever scuzzy is entertaining him to stay there . hes done it a few times too many and i cant deal with the bs. i have a big bed and lord knows i need a good night sleep. no worries here. i have 3 kids to live for if he dare come past 9 his clothes will be on porch cops called. im thru @morganmommy79

@mamix3_, that's awful. My husband didn't cheat on me but he'd always disappear with his ignorant brother or dad to eat or something stupid. But it's aggravating when u don't know where he is at the time. Get some rest and sorry u have to deal with this. :(