@gabilicious, I was mad at my OH and wrote a nasty post on here and he was on my phone on google and saw it 🙁 he's now really upset with me... Before he saw it, we had talked and everything was fine but now he's mad again 😩
Oh I saw it, but he needs to give you a break sometimes too, having a baby is hard on both mum and dad, you needed to let your anger out and that was your way of doing it, he needs to try and understand you more, you can get couple therapy sessions at your local centres for free xx
You need to try work together as a team Hun so like if she cries or something wanting a feed for example one of you try to comfort her while the other makes a bottle and then swap, including night, even taking turns in changing nappies or getting her dressed, that way you two share the stress and responsibility and you don't have to do it all on your own Hun, being a parent is hard and what's even harder that we don't get any instructions we just have to go with the flow xx @daisysmummy
Gabi·
What's wrong xx
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
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@gabilicious, I was mad at my OH and wrote a nasty post on here and he was on my phone on google and saw it 🙁 he's now really upset with me... Before he saw it, we had talked and everything was fine but now he's mad again 😩
Gabi·
Oh I saw it, but he needs to give you a break sometimes too, having a baby is hard on both mum and dad, you needed to let your anger out and that was your way of doing it, he needs to try and understand you more, you can get couple therapy sessions at your local centres for free xx
Gabi·
@daisysmummy,
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
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@gabilicious, he does take her but just gets stressed when she cries xx
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
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But then so do I xx
Gabi·
You need to try work together as a team Hun so like if she cries or something wanting a feed for example one of you try to comfort her while the other makes a bottle and then swap, including night, even taking turns in changing nappies or getting her dressed, that way you two share the stress and responsibility and you don't have to do it all on your own Hun, being a parent is hard and what's even harder that we don't get any instructions we just have to go with the flow xx @daisysmummy