My boyfriend is really good at making me feel like shit. Isabelle fell asleep while he was feeding…
My boyfriend is really good at making me feel like shit. Isabelle fell asleep while he was feeding her and she choked a little and he asked me to grab the bottle, then yelled at me because I didn't grab it in 0.25 seconds. If she's fussy and I'm having difficulty consoling her, he'll just take her from me. If I'm taking too long getting something, he gets impatient and starts making bitchy comments. He doesn't understand that I just pushed out a baby and I'm still in a lot of pain, I can't move as fast as I used to or even as fast as I could while pregnant. I can't just jump up on demand, it takes me a second. It's not my fault it takes about 2 minutes to warm a bottle, sometimes longer. I'm doing my best but it's not enough and he just tears me down and makes me feel like a terrible mom. 😔😔 Then he wonders why I get stressed and anxious if she starts getting fussy, I get embarrassed because I feel like I'm failing as a mom.
Madison·
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He does NOT need to treat you that way, and he should never at anytime get to make you feel like crap. You need to tell him he needs to cool down, be patient and watch his attitude. Being a mom is a lot of work and it's exhausting. You just grew and carried your baby for 9 months, and then give birth to your baby. I'm sure you're an amazing mom, and you're not failing at anything. It takes awhile to adjust, and you need your rest. Take it easy, and don't beat yourself up❤ Hang in there.
Shawna Santistevan·
You gotta sit him down and talk to him. Chances are he's just as stressed as you are. He's adjusting differently than you and it takes time to adjust. And you're still healing! You're doing great and he shouldn't be making you feel this way.