I think it's okay..once they're married that's his "stepson" so he should be able to call him dad, unless the child is uncomfortable doing so.

@carlitojrmami, thanks for commenting. I don't have any kids. expecting my first. just wanted to know what others thought.

@thebaileys I understand

My personal opinion (don't get mad) if my so and I were to ever split up, but he was still there to help support his kids I wouldn't want my kids calling my boyfriend (whoever I'm with) dad.. I don't want my kids father to think he's being replaced 😕 or confuse my kids. But if my kids father decides to run off and leave us hanging and the boyfriend steps up then hey they can call the boyfriend dad if they want. You know what I mean? Just my opinion though 😊

@ldonnelly, oh well his loss then but if y'all get married he will be the step dad regardless

that's what I said! !! but my bf disagreed

yes a child can have two dad's 😊