so pregnancy insomnia has me thinking a lot and all emotional but everyone said there was no way in…
so pregnancy insomnia has me thinking a lot and all emotional but everyone said there was no way in hell id work past 32 weeks . here i am , almost 36 weeks and still working . is it hard ? yes . but i do it because i am lucky enough to not have a complicated pregnancy as to were i cant and i really like working and knowing i am supporting my child and able to pay my bills and live comfortably . all these girls , who dont have kids mind you , are always bashing people for settling down and having babies weather they be planned or unplanned . saying that a baby doesnt make you want to change . let me tell you , my life before pregnancy was partying . fighting . smoking all the time . drinking all the time . didnt care if i missed school or work . drama 24/7 and im just like whyyyyyy . why did i think that was cute ? or okay ? why did i not respect not only myself but other people ? i was told id never get the chance to be a mother . now that i have it , i want the world for him . i will never understand how someone could say being a mom didnt make them want to change . weather it be a big change or changes . or minor changes . my fiancé and my son saved my life and ill always be thankful 💙
Shelby·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
It's very sad to say but sometimes it doesn't change these girls, I know quite a few who keep popping out kids but not raising them or taking responsibility! I'm glad that you were mature and woman enough to say "hey my baby is more important"! Good luck to you!
kenzie .·
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its horrible . majority of my friends are like that and im just like why . grow up . thank you ! @mom_004
Shelby·
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@princesssskxo, it is horrible! I was a very young teen mother and I believe my son saved me, I didn't want to party or do anything but spend time with him and raise him, I did school functions like went to all my dances like prom and whatnot and i would take him to the football games but other then that I stayed home with him, I now have a very happy 10 year old little boy because I chose to be a mother even as young as I was!
kenzie .·
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i dont think its bad if a mom needs a break . its going to happen to everyone . i dont see anything wrong with having a few drinks and whatnot . at all . but i look back and i was seriously a mess and my parents were going to end up getting a phone call i was dead somewhere . @mom_004
Shelby·
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@princesssskxo, needing a break is definitely not a bad thing, my husband and I try to do a date night at least once a month without kids, that's understandable but these girls be partying every night and weekend and i just don't get it, like be at home with your kids! I'd rather sit at home n have a few drinks with my husband and just cuddle up on the couch with him and the kids and watch a movie! and like I said I'm glad you had the will power to change for your baby, that's going to be one of the best decisions you could have made for that baby!
kenzie .·
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some of my friends basically have kids for their parents to turn around and raise them . my mom would beat my ass 😅 im too excited to do that . and my fiancé is on cloud 9 ! im so excited to see him become a daddy . @mom_004
Shelby·
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@princesssskxo, I would not let my mother raise my kids lol 😂😂😂 and it's good you have your fiancé's support!