What do you do when you feel like your husbands not attracted to you anymore? The last time we had…
What do you do when you feel like your husbands not attracted to you anymore? The last time we had sex was on our anniversary (last weekend) & I had to ask for it.. ( I always have to ask & try to initiate things & he just makes up excuses) Keep in mind that was the first time we had sex in like 6 weeks.. He had his gallbladder removed 4 weeks ago & he blames it on that but he's perfectly fine.. I just feel like he just doesn't want me. I ask him all the time to have sex with me & hes "too tired" or "I'm still recovering" I just miss feeling wanted by him.. I just tried to kiss on him & initiate something & he just goes "I'm sleeping" I've never met a dude that could go that long without having sex..he used to never be able to keep his hands off of me! & then once I got super pregnant it just stopped.. It makes me feel like I'm not sexy or beautiful to him anymore.. I hate feeling like this😔
GR 💘·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I'm on the same boat as you !!! like with my SO before we had our first daughter I never had to ask or legit beg (because there are days I have to beg) for sex he would always want it always start initiating sex but noo now with our daughter and this pregnancy he never wants it he makes me feel so ugly and just fat everytime I kiss him or touch him "I'm tired" .... "I'm hot" ..... "My this or that hurts" 😡 always always has excuses so I completely understand you
Angelica Eberly·
В ожидании первенца
They suck! Don't they realize how bad they make us feel about ourselves?? I'll literally cry myself to sleep every night because I feel pathetic begging him for sex.. We shouldn't have to beg for them to touch us!!! It's ridiculous. @mommyofbella26
Lori 🍕·
sometimes it's because their afraid of hurting the baby, they might not admit it bc it sounds crazy but alot of men say their afraid to hurt the baby , I'm sure he's attracted to you still don't worry .
GR 💘·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
It really is like more so because we're pregnant we're hormonal and its like they don't take that in consideration he really makes me just feel so ugly and not good enough for him and I'll even tell him how he makes me feel and he's like just doesn't care but wait when he wants sex and I don't there is no question about it he gets it whether I want it or not @evasmommy626
Angelica Eberly·
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I'll tell him how I feel about it & he'll say shit like "it's not you I promise" or "way to make me feel like shit.." It's just like ugh!!! Am I so wrong for wanting to feel like my husband wants me?! He just doesn't get it. @mommyofbella26
deleted-user·
I know the feeling. My boyfriend can be the same way. It sucks.
GR 💘·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
Oh no your far from wrong he defiently should give you the attention you need it sucks when they don't because it really hurts us @evasmommy626
emily·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm sorry :( you should speak to him about it! While I was pregnant it was me that never wanted sex. I saw that he'll say it's not you or something when you try to talk to him about it but have you asked like okay then what is it? Tell him exactly what you're saying, that you miss feeling wanted by him. I can understand how much it would really hurt your self esteem, especially 9 months pregnant.
Angelica Eberly·
В ожидании первенца
I have talked to him about it! Multiple times! & he'll say that he's just really stressed out & that he does want me but it's hard because my bellys so big😔 it's just not fair to me!! @emkasting
Maddison·
Angelica, noooooo. I promise it's not that. Literally Corey was the same way.. We didn't have sex for 7 weeks! He really started to basically refuse sex once I started dilating. It honestly just scares them I guess. I promise once baby girl is here he'll be all over you again. I went from feeling like you while I was pregnant to now telling Corey he needs to back off touching me all the time lol. Tyler loves you. Relax beautiful!!