I just feel horrible my entire family is saying I made a bad decision by having my daughter get her…

I just feel horrible my entire family is saying I made a bad decision by having my daughter get her ears pierced cause she also got 3 shots...and on top of it all I can't comfort her cause I'm sick....and ND I'm just pissed off at her dad cause I kept calling him to bring the stuff for me to clean her piercing and he took forever to show up..... then he had the audacity to start ignoring my calls I don't give a fuck if you busy I was calling you cause I needed to clean my baby piercing but because you came so late I had to send my aunt and instead of me cleaning it 2x today I only to it one time.....andhonestly I just want to cry and I can't...I had no idea she would get 3 shots...they did her ears first then gave her shots so I didn't know her last appt she only had 1 shot....jeez 😢😢😢 I'm probably being over emotional 😔😔😔😔