I've never put my bf down on anything. until we get married I don't plan to either..

I think they do so that's why I didn't do that and I couldn't get it

I'm guessing it's cash assistance? if so. yes they do. it's like they write him a bill of the money they have given you. and he has to pay it back. and it puts him in child'support... if you don't want to put him in child support .they won't give you the assistance I believe