I never really thought I'd be the type of person to get crazy over people touching my bump or…
I never really thought I'd be the type of person to get crazy over people touching my bump or commenting on it but my child's father's sister (who I haven't talked to since before finding out not by any fault or reason of my own) snuck up on me today and had the nerve to just touch and rub my stomach talking about "ohh girl you're getting so big! Oh my gosh!" Like first of all, she hasn't been there in a positive way or supportive way for my child's father nor myself and hasn't been respectful of our relationship or the fact that we have a child on the way at all, hasn't been involved in our lives enough to be doing that, or anything whatsoever, and she's just so sneaky and toxic and I don't like or need sneaky or toxic people in my life or giving off their energy to my baby, and second of all, idk about you ladies but I hate when people feel the need to comment on how big you're getting even if they're not thinking of it as an insult (or are but trying to play it off lol), and for me having had weight and image issues for a very long time my size and whatnot has been something I've had issues coping with throughout this pregnancy, so it's definitely not a welcome comment for me; my child's father luckily let her know my sentiments on those things after that happened so fingers crossed it won't happen again.