it baffles me how my aunt can talk shit about my miscarriage and now talk shit about my unborn…

Because she's jealous you're having a girl.

@t142, yes i know but shes ungrateful not everyone can have kids a lot of people struggle with infertility she should be happy she was able to give birth to her kids.. which side not she doesnt even take care of

You're right. But because she never experienced it, she doesn't understand. She only sees her point of view. I was just like you, I lost my first child and was completely terrified when I had my daughter. I would get very emotional when women around me for pregnant after I lost my child.

@t142, she never lost a kid she just talked about my miscarriage like it was her business and really mean things about it. She has ALWAYS had something to say about me but now that my daughters almost here her mom,her sisters,her brothers and her are all talking about me and my daughter for NO reason .

Yup it's all jealousy!! If you can stay away from them. We don't pick what gender the child will be. We have been blessed to have rainbow babies. People like her will never understand us. I REALLH hope she swallows every last word and ends up falling in love with your baby. Let love conquer her. But if not, keep away. God blessed you for a reason.

@t142, her sister has 3 little girls her brother has 2 girls as well.. they just always had a problem with me for absolutely no reason.. i cutt them off i wasnt even the one that told them im pregnant it was my mom. I dont want her near my daughter and i made that very clear with my mom. i love my child to pieces and if shes not enough for them thats their own problem she wasnt ment for them she was made for me