my dilemma: i had my baby on Thursday... im finally home and now im engorged and my nipples are swollen.. she nursed for about 30-45 mins ending around 1030 pm now its 0202 and i cannot get her to latch because one breast has a flat nipple thats swollen and the other is about 3x the normal size.. what.can I do.. ive tried tylenol for the swelling, hot compress, i took a hot shower and focused on my boobs.. my boobs are leaking but just cannt latch.. i really need to feed her.. but now she decides to go to sleep. any suggestions I really don't want to give her formula for the night