Okay I need to rant So I just moved in with my husband (finally) about a month ago and I'm very very…
Okay I need to rant
So I just moved in with my husband (finally) about a month ago and I'm very very close to my best friend of 14 years so the separation (2,000+ miles) is hard for us. We talk and FaceTime almost every day. Of course I told her I'm pregnant. (trying not to tell too many people just yet, but she's my bestfriend haha) so since my husband is a marine he has to go in the field for a month to train for deployment. Therefore I'll be here alone for a month and with me being pregnant my best friend is all worried about me and wanted to come out here for a week. Now her and my husband had some issues last year but they worked it out. I was on FaceTime earlier with her, helping her book her flight. When I came inside my hubby asked who I was talking to so I told him and I told him why. And he said when did she book her flight & I said a week before you come back from training, so they don't run into each other because there is still some tension. He didn't look too happy but I just shook it off. He went for a ride on his motorcycle and came back all rude. he was putting the leash on the dog and I said you're taking him for a walk? and he said yeah and I said can I come and he said if you want to (with attitude) and I said nvm. Maybe I'm just being too emotional but he needs to let the past go and so does she. I'm not taking sides but I don't see how it's a big deal that she's coming to visit when he wont even be here. UGH, I just feel like crying, idk why I'm so emotional, I'm never like this.
missing413user·
He needs to get over himself really freakin quick. You're gunna need support when he leaves. If he doesn't see that then he's being extremely close minded
Lauren·
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@rainbow0601, EXACTLY. I don't even understand why he's so mad. ugh.
missing413user·
Just let him sulk about it. He's prob subconsciously moody about leaving in general. There's nothing to you to be sorry about so just stand your ground and he'll get over it
Amanda·
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Sounds like he's not even mad. Maybe you're Over thinking and just emotional bc hormones
Lauren·
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@rainbow0601, oh I'm standing my ground. I mean I completely understand the moody about leaving part, but don't take it out on me, I'm your support system here 😞
Lauren·
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@mandysue, that's what I was thinking at first, but I can sense when he's mad and I know he's a little mad, he always hates when I talk to her but he's gotta lighten up a little. I'm sure I'm overreacting a little bc hormones but idk