ugh I love my father in law he's amazing with helping us if/when we need it but omg sometimes I…

That's the price u pay when u get personal help. My parents the same way

I couldnt handle it personally. When we moved out my FIL always called me, and would ask where we are at, what we are doing, and even show up un announced at any time, day or night, even as late as 11pm. It got to the point that I just snapped, and told him we can do without him, and ended the daily/weekly visits. Hes down to once a month because he is just tooo invasive. He doesnt know when to stop, even my husband couldnt handle it.

My mother in law is the same way! I appreciate her but she's just too much into our business and it's worse since I've been pregnant. The other day I was having 5min constractions and I told my husband we should go in and she was waiting at the door with our bags. She could wait to be called just like every one else, but instead she invited herself.

@kedrababy, he doesn't help financially or anything he just volunteer to babysit once in awhile, we borrow his lawn mower and stuff like that. but omg he randomly shows up and when he does he wants in all our business. It's jus honestly getting annoying.. idk maybe it's just my hormones... @rachel8792 I've done good holding my tongue so far ugh but idk how much longer I can... @arlogreyson I'd tell her off lol I can't stand my MIL luckily my husband rarely sees her so i don't have to deal with her much (my husbands parents are divorced )

Girl, you are alot stronger than I am. When he showed up at 11pm trying to visit my sleeping newborn, I went cray, and told him to leave. He would randomly visit, and literally stay to visit like it was his own home. I moved out to get away, and this man followed haha. Im just glad my husband feels the way I do, and we dont have to see him like that anymore. He still texts us both everyday, but we dont answer haha