do any of you mom's have your plans for labor already? I've been thinking so much about it and how I…

I had my birth plan ready months in advance had it approved and everything when my labor actually began that plan went right out the window. I was able to go thru with my plans after delivery like skin to skin stuff like that but my actually delivery was out of my control it is good to go in with a plan to keep you focused it helped me from being anxious and off track

@hayesmommy, do you mind sharing what happened?

I'm due nov.9th and I've had my birth plan set and ready since I found out I was pregnant

I wanted natural birth ended up having to get an epidural I wanted my water to break naturally but had to get my water broke i wanted to walk around to help labor but I was confined to the bed because of the epidural those were the major ones i had to disregard from my plan

My advice is have a plan but be open to adapting as well.... Birth plans are great especially if you're a type A person and need it, but life doesn't always go as "planned" so be open and okay with adaptation of needed but let your first choices be known