I live in a world where I have to worry about my boyfriend cousin uncle dad brother friend getting…

I live in a world where I have to worry about my boyfriend cousin uncle dad brother friend getting home safely cause of their skin I live in a world where I wonder if my daughter will be safe or have to see her father gun down in front of her if she will even get to be a kid...my question is if violence isn't the answer and peaceful protest isn't the answer.. then what is??