I would like everyone's opinions on when y'all think it's best to have baby#2?? :) just curious some people tell me to wait and some say the sooner the better to get it over with what do you girls think? ☺️
@lucyyxoxo_, yes I'll be 26 with second then I'm done!!!!:) the good lord knows I want a boy next but hubby fell in love with our girl and wants another I don't mind as long as she/he is healthy ❤️
well he threw 2 at you at once lol so it's double the work off the bat. I'm happy as it is. but daddy wants another boy lol I told him try and handle your little girl first and then we'll talk @lydia007
The Lord better personally tell me he has another child in store for me if He wants me to have a third. I'm almost 27 so he needs to hmu now or forever hold his peace cause I'm done lol! @lucyyxoxo_
seriously! lol if by 29 I'm not pregnant at least I have my 2 @lydia007
I agree with @lydia007 my son and daughter will be 4 years apart. so much easier bc he will be of alot of help and he's so independent. if we were to plan to have one more I'm thinking the gap might only be 2 years bc I don't want to deal with diapers after I'm 30 lol
@lydia007, that's wonderful you are set with your pair so lucky!!! And yes I'm leaning towards 3 years for the same reason I really want to focus On my baby girl and plus I have birth control for 3 years I should be good thank you!!!:)
I'd wait 2-4 years depending on how my first born depended on me. The minimum of two years at least devotes all that time to him/her when they need it most. ( of course our babies always will need us but the first years require more of our attention to them) that's what I would do. Buuuuut considering I have twins, I think I got it out the way not by choice but thankful at the same time. It's definitely a handful when you have itty bitty ones close in age. Good luck, mama!
@sexii_diiva, yes that's why I think twice cause running after a toddler while pregnant is pretty tough I assume
@cookiemonster1216, yes I have a birth control that last 3yrs so we will see how it goes lol
@ktwins188, wow lucky you that's what I wanted I know it might get hard but it's so worth it once they're grown :)
it's up to you... I don't want a big gap between my children. I want to have them every 2 years. my son is 17 months and I'm 3 months pregnant BUT it is hard running behind a toddler and pregnant.. and being tired
I decided I wanted mine spaced between 2 1/2- 3yrs apart. I can't imagine having two under 2! My dd has cousins who are 15mo apart and it's hard on them! I grew up two years younger than my older sister, and almost three yrs older than my younger sister though, so I have a different perspective on things
I have twins and mannn its sure a handful Lol I don't want anymore babies anytime soon Lol
even tho my twins have everything they need ! pregnancy was just a bitch I hate throwing up and feeling like shit Lol
@ktwins188, yea I thinks that's a for sure I just wanted some opinions from experienced mommies:) @scarlettsmom me too!! Lol I have a 5 month old but I had such a great experience with her that I can't wait for baby #2!!💕❤️
I wanna know too! Low key wanna have another baby lol
you have plenty of time. still young. (: