so my S/O has his ex gf name tattooed on his leg. it really drives me up the wall when I think about it. and I caught…

Oh no, no no. Don't do that to yourself. Even if he's asking about her it's pure curiosity. I learned that being suspicious and over thinking can cause unnecessary stress and drama. Pretend you didn't see it and don't look twice next time. If there's a real threat to your relationship it'll come out on its own.

@indigenousmommy, that's what I'm telling myself I'm trying to not think about it. things just seem so strained between us lately and now this. and I mean he wasn't hiding it. it was up on his PC when I went over to talk to him so I know it wasn't meant to be a secret which helps. I'm just so stressed out about our relationship lately. 😕

Things will be ok, pregnancy takes a toll and causes men to go a little crazy. Keep trusting him and giving him privacy and you guys will do just fine.

My ex and I lost our virginity to each other and started dating in 9th grade, my SO knows I will always have love for him. He wouldn't even care even he texted me every so often to check in on me cause' he still cares about me. I wouldn't keep a convo going, I just let him know I was safe. Once I got pregnant I told him there could be absolutely no contact and he's respectful of that. Everyone has a history, just because he may still care about an ex doesn't mean he still wants her.

I really hate that too. my husband's daughters mom is different but any other ex I would b pissed

@michellevaldez4750, @sarinunez I've just been so insecure lately because he's been distant with me. not saying much no interest in sex won't hold my hand in public... it all just makes me nervous.

@indigenousmommy, thank you

I know what you mean. I've been insecure too lately. It sucks! I hate feeling like this

@michellevaldez4750, feeling insecure is the worst anytime but I feel as if the extra hormones almost make it unbearable these days. I'm a mess. lol

Yes :(