So i kinda need to vent but also kinda ask first advice. My mom has drank for years and has been in and out of jail since i was 12 . This las year she was arrested on my birthday because she was out doing something she wasn't supposed to. She ended up going to prison for 9month's . I moved in with my fiance that same night i ended up pregnant i visited my mom when i was 23weeks but she misses most of everything else and she was not there for my sons birth. She is out now and going through classes and volunteering and doing little jobs. She is doing better herself and she has been helpful with baby. But my fiance and her have a little bit of a past and my mom holds a grudge. She is disrespectful to his wishes and she thinks he is trying to control me. I think she thinks that we are going to have a relationship like my dad and her (they are divorced) the fought a lot. But we are nothing like that. She thinks she still need to "taken care of me "and she is very disrespectful to me. I love my mom she is my mom but God dam it sometimes i really don't like her. I have been biting my lip and putting on a fake smile but dam i feel like screaming puling hair and going app shit on someone. I think am just yearning for that relationship that i hold on to every little bit of it that i can. But i really just need to step away and do my own thing and let her do hers because if she can't except James Reedy in my life than she can't except me or her grand son because the are a part of my life and we are a part of his life and i want have any disrespecting my mans wishes for his son.