Having a really tough time balancing both life as a mom and wife. I give all my love and focus to Aidan and give all my…
Having a really tough time balancing both life as a mom and wife. I give all my love and focus to Aidan and give all my energy to keeping the house clean and meals made that at the end of the day being intimate with my husband is the last thing on my mind and really our only source of disagreement )):
p·
it must be a new mom thing cuz im going thru the same thing:/
Sara·
Мама сына-младенца
Yea I thini its pretty common!!!
its so frustrating because I feel like that is all my husband cares about is sex or lack of it when u explained how tired I am how about tomorrow and he says never mind I am sick of asking. wtf?! )):< your not the one that gets up all night and tends to baby 24/7! @p0790
Olivia·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Lol. Am i😥
Jazzmin·
Мама двоих (младенец)
It happens! My partner says the same! We went through the that with our first born for a couple of months the. It got better now it's happening again with our second
Mama Vee 🌻·
its very common. i went through the same thing. & that caused a lot of tension between us that we are barely working on things. & my son is 2 years old. he just never understood when you become a mom all your attention goes to your baby. & on top of that when you still have to take care of house stuff. its all exhusting. its something they'll never understood unless they step into your shoes. your not alone though. & all of this is what makes you a great mom!!! Hugs to you mama!! & Congradulations on your little one 💜
Deanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
It's hard at first to balance everything but once you get the hang of it, it'll be a lot easier. I had a hard time at first but now I'm doing a lot better. Sometimes I let the house go for a day just because to me it's more important to balance my time between my husband and daughter than making sure my house is spotless. I use to be the type of person that would clean everyday all day. But now I stopped all my cleaning obsessions so I can give my daughter more attention during the day and so I'm not so tired to give my husband attention and so I have time to do my classes online. You'll get there it just takes practice and time.
Sara·
Мама сына-младенца
Thanks everyone! @babynessa @jazzyjazz @mommyof2loves @vanessalove I'm glad to know this is totally normal and something we just have to learn to adjust to!
liz·
Мама четверых детей
@dohmommy2016, I'm having the same problem right now and my husband is frustrated I can't do anything for two more weeks.