I can honestly say being a step parent is the worst thing ever. This so caught me off guard. I'm…

I'd leave her high and dry until she comes to you so she can see how much you do for her...that's some rude shit

She between 13 and 17? Sounds like teenage stuff. My niece is 11 and already giving my brother attitude

@aydans.mommy, yeah it is. I'm like so pissed off. She says she's old enough. To me old enough is providing for ur self being an adult.

@missliss, she's 15

I couldn't agree with you more...old enough is when you prove it not she

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@asht09, yea that makes sense. Unfortunately it seems like it's a girl thing. Her hormones are up and down and it causes shitty behavior. You should ask her father to have a conversation with her where you both sit down and tell her she needs to respect you as much as she respects others in the family

I say fuck her.. but im rude.. dont be like me lol..

@lilfree16, that's how I feel at this point

do what you have to do.. i dont have time for disrespectful children.. I'll ignore you and just let the father deal with her. especially if youre living in my house, you're going to respect me.

@lilfree16, I just didn't even reply. I told my boy friend u deal with ur kids n ill deal with mine. I'm not going to let a 15 year old sister respect me. Old enough? Really ur on bc so u don't get pregnant. I wasn't having sex at that age.

knowing how it is to be on the other end of things it's always best to go to the PARENT (in your case your bf) with your concerns and let him handle it. Yes you're there for her but at the end of the day your not her parent.. Just my opinion you though

@klove23, her dad is going to talk to her. The biological mother is on drugs.

@asht09, I always preferred my dad approaching me with any issues or concerns rather then his wife .. If not it pretty much went through one ear and out the other and my brother was the same way.. his mom was on drugs to but it still didn't eliminate the fact that he still very much had a mother and my dad's wife wasn't it ! In the long run she'll be thankful for you but you can't force it, it'll only cause resentment