I'm okay with wanting friends, and to meet new people, but I will not do so after one message of…

I'm okay with wanting friends, and to meet new people, but I will not do so after one message of trying too hang out. I want too talk and get too know who you are before I say "yes, lets meet up with my 4 month old" like no offense but I'm

Not open too just anyone. Plus I need a foundation of who are you are for conversation purposes. In a way I'm very shy, so please don't get offended if I don't jump on the first and only message you send me to meet up. It's not intentional, I just don't trust much these days and I'd like too have a firm ground of who I'm about too bring in my life.