Feeling so down :( my daughter won't settle unless she's on me and the fact I don't have time to eat…
Feeling so down :( my daughter won't settle unless she's on me and the fact I don't have time to eat or even pee is really getting to me! My OH is cooking me a pizza now and it's the first thing I've eaten today... I haven't even brushed my teeth!
zara·
have you tried a baby sling? x
Sara-Louise·
I know it's hard to see them upset but if you need to owe or eat then put her down. It's only for a few moments & it won't help her learn how to self smooth carrying her all the time. I'm not saying 'cry it out' as that's not the same thing. But it is ok for them to cry she won't be in any harm. Find a safe place for her to lay or in a bouncer while your in the bathroom so she can still see you.
Sara-Louise·
Need to wee* lol
Sara-Louise·
I should add I felt the same the first few days... I remember asking my mum to watch Morgan while I went to the toilet. She was like you can lay him somewhere he will be fine lol.
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
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@sara-lou, I just can't bare the thought of her crying 🙁
Sara-Louise·
Well babies cry Hun. It's what they do. Again I've never left my son to scream, couldn't bare it. Never let him cry at night I would always go & check on him. But it doesn't do them or us any good carrying them around 24/7. Some mums do & that's totally your choice. But then expect to not be able to pee or eat! Lol
Rachael·
I agree with @sara-lou as long as she's in a safe place it's ok to let he cry. She will soon get used to u having to leave the room. My lb used to do it all the time but you have to just try and ignore for a little while. He is now fine and is happy to sit on his for at least half hour while I do the tidying up or what ever I need to do. If I'm in the kitchen I sit him in the door way and let him watch and put some music on and he loves chilling in his bouncy. Try not to let her get the better of you or you will make your life hard work.