Honestly after I give birth while my stay at the hospital I don't want anybody visiting me 🙄 except for my mother.…

I feel the same way, but I messed up and told my friends early on that I'd let them know, so of course they're all "tell me when you have your FIRST contraction and I'll be there" like stopppp 😒

The only people I'm telling that I'm in labor is my siblings / parents, my fiancé's parents and my very close family. I don't really even plan on announcing the babies birth to friends until a couple days after . Everyone says I'm rude for doing that but I wanna be calm and settled before all the commotion begins. 😅

I don't mind people visiting at the hospital once she's born, but I don't want anyone except my boyfriend there while I'm in labor. Not even in the waiting room! I'm gonna need a bit of time after she's born to collect myself before wanting visitors.

Seriously lol like give me some space damn @makayleigh , I live with my mom so my siblings will know & I don't really bond with my family like that so they're not important to have for the birth of my child because they're so judgemental and I don't need that 😒 & it's not being rude it's our decision anyway it's our baby @abw716

Am only having my mom & boyfriend in the room when am in labor I wouldn't feel comfortable with anyone else there wayching my vagina lol @katarama

Lol it took me forever to even be comfortable with my boyfriend in the room! I made him promise not to look at my vagina while she's coming out lmao

Omg mine told me he's gonna make fun of me when that happens he will come out the hospital with a bruised eye 😭 I wouldn't want him to watch that either! @katarama

I'm only having my boyfriend and mom in there 😅I'm not comfortable with either of them seeing my vagina let alone other family !

Definitely agree with you! Like let me bond with my child 🙄 @mrsthig

Not grimey, my SO and I decided we would tell people a few hours after the baby is born.