Ugh. I'm already going through this DFCS bs with my 2 year old. Someone called and said her father…

Ugh. I'm already going through this DFCS bs with my 2 year old. Someone called and said her father was beating me and that we're both doing drugs in front of her. All lies. So anyway I moved into my dads and am under investigation and I'm going through the motions of getting the help I need to stay home with Alyce, like continuing food stamps and getting TANF, and making it where I don't have to work (I honestly wish I could work though I hate living off of others, especially the government). Well since I'm in a position to be able to better care for the baby on the baby, I told HER father that I would like to keep her a little while before having her move 400 miles away to live with him (since I wanted him to have her while I try to get on my feet and we split custody). It's doable now that I'm in a different and safer situation and I'll be able to stay home with her, etc etc. well he's pitching a fit trying to say he won't agree to it. Well nothing was ever signed or even drawn up agreement wise with a lawyer so I was telling him in order to get her like we planned right away, he'd have to take me to court. But by the time the baby would be here, the DFCS case should be closed but full of evidence proving just how fit of a mother and safe of an environment this house is for her. But he's still fighting it. I'm trying very hard to stay calm and try to talk to him rationally about it. But he's angry and being childish talking about me getting knocked up again just to not take care of that baby too. He's being very horrible to me. He even said he didn't like her name and the only reason he agreed was because I wanted it. And now he's just pulling a full 360. I don't wanna have to go to court I was genuinely hoping we could be adults and come to an agreement ourselves. My situation (where I live and people around me) has changed two or three times so the agreement had to change too. But with the DFCS investigation I have to stay where I am and be stable for my 2 year old. So obviously I'll be In position to care for the baby when she gets here. Plus, he's been living like a bachelor for years. He has 3 dogs, dog hair everywhere, almost no furniture besides a dresser and bed and couch, random tools on kitchen counters (he never cooked, barely kept snacks in the kitchen, etc) and it's just not a very healthy environment for baby. PLUS it's a split level, his mother lives upstairs and him downstairs. She's working on buying a property and moving out within the next year, and he's moving upstairs where there's more room. So there a lot of preparation and moving and baby proofing and this that and the other to do with his house. But for me? We just need a dresser and a bassinet and start buying clothes and that's it. Plus he works a lot of overtime and even without overtime he works a lot. So it would make more sense for her to be with me for a little while. If not the first year, then at least the first 6 months or so. I'm just so upset right now. /: