I am actually beginning to be surprised by my boyfriend. I always heard of guys losing interest in…
I am actually beginning to be surprised by my boyfriend. I always heard of guys losing interest in sex when their girl gets pregnant but he has always been really open and understanding ( a little too open) of bodily functions and changes that I never thought we could go this long with no sex... Kinda sad :(
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Mine loves me pregnant he is all over me lol
Ashley·
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for some reason, mine wants me more now than before. Lol he's very into me and this big fat belly xD
emily·
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You probably don't wanna hear about how much other guys are into their girls while they're pregnant if you're not getting the same attention. I know it's probably tough, I hardly had sex at all while pregnant mostly cause it was painful! Pregnancy is such a huge change I think some guys may not know how to process it, then there are tons that think they might hurt you or the baby! Have you tried talking to him about how you're feeling to see what's on his mind?
kodi·
me and mine havent had sex sense I was like 3 months.. I lost my sex drive anyways its just a big change and he might not want to make you uncomfortable
kodi·
not to mention me personally I cant get turned on with my baby kicking me. its just wierd.
Shay Leigh·
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@kodinotjodi, @emkasting honestly I lost my sex drive too, and my daughter kicking me like " hey mom what ya doin?" Makes it really weird. I just want him to want me and to have that closeness. I'm like really cuddly and lovey and kissy, and even if I can't enjoy it as much as I used to, just him wanting me would make me feel good.
Shay Leigh·
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@emkasting and I did ask him how he is okay without sex because a lot of guys would be pissy he just said " well our situation is. Little different than other" and that was the end of it
emily·
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I totally understand that. Slightly different from how I was only because my boyfriend would have had sex if I wanted to, but I don't know if he necessarily wanted me MORE you know what I mean? My sex drive completely vanished while pregnant haha. But that's what you should tell your man, how just knowing he wants you would be enough for you. I think that's a perfect thing to say.
kodi·
lol I asked my bf the same thing.. he said well yeahhh but its not gonna kill him kind of thing.. if our men really care about how we feel with everything going on .. just shows to me how much they really love us. I feel the same way wanting to be wanted but I definitely dont want awkward sex lol