I had our son doing that. then daddy don't work so he holds him all day! and then uses our son as an excuse to sit around and do nothing. I stay at home with him, do everything, and this isn't making it any easier. @jennatess

My daughter is almost a year old and she STILL has to be put down when she's already passed out totally. It kills my back. She's 30lbs! I wish she could just lay down sleepy and put herself to sleep.