Idk if I can deal with this anymore. I understand my husband works until I can go back to work but it's 1:45am, I am in…
Idk if I can deal with this anymore. I understand my husband works until I can go back to work but it's 1:45am, I am in agonizing pain because of an infection in my gallbladder, and he can't even get up to make his son a fucking bottle... I'm done with him. He's beyond worthless. I feel bad enough because I can't even breastfeed our son for a while (my painkillers and antibiotics keep me from it) now I can't even make him a bottle because I'm in so much pain I can't move because my painkillers aren't doing shit tonight. I love him but I can't do this on my own. What's going to happen after I have my surgery?...
Heather·
Мама четверых детей
so sorry😞. here if you'd like to talk
Kayla Sheehan·
Мама сына (1 год)
You're going to have to talk to him. Be blunt and direct. He HAS to step it up. He created this child too. He doesn't get to just "help you out" with him. He's a PARENT. It's his job as much as it is yours. I'm so sorry you're going through this. My husband is an awesome man. When my now 16 month old was born, via emergency c section.. He did something similar. He was a huge help at the hospital and then once he started going back to work.. It was just me. Doing everything. And I was in so much pain. It took me going off on him. (I tried bringing up that it bothered me a couple times and it didn't do much good. He'd help a liiiiittle) but after me losing my crap haha he's been fantastic ever since. I think it was just all so new to us and he hadn't quite adjusted or understood his role, like I did. Women seem to fall right into the swing of things.
Amber·
Мама сына-младенца
I've tried losing my shit. All he does is yell at me saying I'm the house wife the kid is my job... @kayladiana
Kayla Sheehan·
Мама сына (1 год)
Girl. I have no advice. I would tear my husband a new one of he told me that :/ I stay at home too. I do take care of the house. But our child is exactly that.. Ours. He's a father. He needs to step up and act like one.
Amber·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm about to tell him to get his shit together or get out. I already play the role of a single mom taking care of our son by myself so if I have to keep this up he doesn't need to stay. I can support my son on my own. @kayladiana